I believe (:
I really feel so much better after chatting with u(Jing ru). Thanks for your concern and showing me the right path. 
In true love, there will always be respect for the other person.
If u truly love a person, u want tat person to be happy,
you will never do anything to hurt that person.
Even if that person doesn't like you, you still want tat person to be happy.
True love is, there must be respect and wanting the other person to be happy.
There must a be trust that the person will never hurt me.
It's also both parties respect each other's needs.
For eg if i hope my partner will do something, i know my partner will be happier doing something else, i will support.
The power must be equally shared. Got give got take, anything happen can discuss.
Not like win/lose situation.
Relationship is not a competition.
-Jing Ru
I believe in having a compassionate heart and treating people with true care and concern (:
-FionTheGirl
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